Comforting hugs, radiant smiles, nuanced facial expressions, and the simple act of physical touch are just a few of the precious things we missed during the pandemic. Many of us experienced profound losses - loved ones, jobs, and a sense of normalcy. Above all, perhaps what we missed the most was the fundamental essence of our humanity - human connection.
As Thomas Merton beautifully said, "Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone - we find it with another."
Nothing puts this in perspective more than expecting a baby.
As I stood beneath the breathtaking Japanese Cherry Blossom Tree, its delicate pink blooms contrasting against the cold April air in Michigan, I began to capture the love story of Garrett and Bonita.
Garrett and Bonita were married in April 2020, when the world was shutting down due to Covid-19. They made the decision to leave New York City and head to Garrett's childhood home in Alabama, determined to celebrate their union and love while their close friends and family watched their wedding being streamed online. The theme of their wedding was Better Together.
Now, three years later, Garrett and Bonita are expecting their first child. Since they missed the opportunity to celebrate their wedding day with their loved ones in 2020, they decided to host an intimate gathering while on tour in Michigan and asked me to photograph the occasion.
Family and friends flew in from all over the world to celebrate...
We started off the day with group pictures and from there, we let the afternoon unfold. I couldn't help but smile as I documented...
singing...
dancing...
laughter...
and impressive acrobatics...
As the laughter faded, heartfelt speeches painted a vivid picture of cherished memories, taking us back to the origins of the relationships in the room. These speeches reminded us of the profound power of human connection to nourish and sustain our bonds. From chance encounters at Barnes and Noble orientation, to college friendships that have stood the test of time, and family ties that run deep, these relationships serve as a good reminder that it's okay (and necessary) to...
lean on each other
hold each other tight...
and cry...
tears of remembrance...
tears of empathy...
tears of joy...
and tears of gratitude.
Because although life can be uncertain and challenging, it's not meant to be lived alone. By sharing our lives with others, we are able to find strength, hope and meaning in this life. We are better together.
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